I bought a new T-shirt three or four years ago. I thought the design on it was lightning. I was dismayed when I discovered that it was actually a depiction of an angry bird.
I did not want to wear a picture of an angry bird on my T-shirt but it is the most comfortable T-shirt I’ve got and it is also easy to get in and out of. Both of those qualities are very important to me right now.
As I continued to think about it, I remembered when the crows used to dive-bomb me in the Greenbelt behind my house. There was an old helmet that had been left in the Greenbelt sometime in the past. If it hadn’t been so dirty, I would have been tempted to put it on as I felt I was being attacked. I was told that it was nesting season and that I was coming too close to their nests. The crows were only protecting their young.
This year, the same thing happened at the place that I am staying now. Crows dive-bombed me two different times in May or June. It happened in different parts of the property, so I don’t know if it was the same crow or two different ones. Those incidents happened three or four weeks apart. Both times, I could feel the wings of the crow touch my head. And once again, it was nesting season so the crows were simply protecting their babies.
When I remembered those experiences, I no longer cared about wearing a T-shirt that had a picture of an angry bird on it. Then, I realized that my role as a corrective parenting group psychotherapist had been to teach adult men and women how to take care of their inner children.
As such, I was an advocate for the young. I was also a protective mom when it came to my own children. Even though they are now adults, I don’t want anyone messing with them and will definitely come to their defense, at least in my mind.
So now I am able to wear my angry bird T-shirt proudly. It is one of the symbols of my life. What are the other symbols? I’ll have to think about that.
Living, Learning and Letting Go 
Karuna-you look so lovely. I just saw a movie on Netflix called The Starling. The woman in the movie had to also wear a helmet to protect her head. It has a sweet ending.
I too am like a Mama bird protecting my young if I sense anything is going on with my daughter’s safety. I understand this too.
Now I am remembering you asked me to write something in response to a previous blog. I don’t remember the subject. Can you remind me? I can also ck my emails.-Love to you-Arathi
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Here they suggested carrying an umbrella.
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In India too-those pigeons! Oops-Crows mainly-especially near Cafe.
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Yes they are so smart. Perfect timing for food stealing.
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I think you must’ve checked your email because the response you wrote was similar to what you sent me.
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I love the angry bird t-shirt story. If you have access there is a movie with Melissa McCarthy called the Starling. It is a very good story about her relationship with an angry bird. Good to see you.
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Someone else recommended that as well. Maybe someday I will see it.
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Impeccable timing for stealing and pooping. How many times have you had to change your clothes? Or wash your hair 🙂
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not that much. but it has certainly happened
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You remind the time i posted a beautiful picture of myself and behind was a beautiful mosque, I was ridiculed and even told to put the picture down, in this case i love your T-shirt it is beautiful and has beautiful color.
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Thanks so much for reading my post and commenting. I really appreciate it.
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